I've heard about guardianship, but it sounds so drastic. Are there any other options we should consider first for my mm? I don't want to take away her independence, but I'm really worried about her safety.
Guardianship is a big step, and it's not always the best first choice. Have you looked into power of attorney or conservatorship? Those can give you some control without taking away all of Mom's independence. Another thing to consider is setting up a care team with her doctors, social workers, and family members to keep an eye on things. It's all about finding that balance between keeping her safe and respecting her wishes. There's no one-size-fits-all solution, so take your time and explore all your options before making any big decisions.