Caregiver Community Forum

Has anyone dealt with a denied health insurance claim for something really important (and expensive)? How did you handle it? Any programs or benefits for medical expenses?

How do you know if guardianship is the right move? Are there other options out there?

I've heard about guardianship, but it sounds so drastic. Are there any other options we should consider first for my mm? I don't want to take away her independence, but I'm really worried about her safety.

How do you juggle your own finances while also dealing with the out-of-pocket costs for your parents care?

Starting to really struggle to balance my own bills with all the extra expenses for my dad's care. Between co-pays, medications, and equipment that insurance won't cover, it feels like I'm drowning in debt. I've already dipped into my savings and I'm worried about my own financial future.

Are there any financial assistance programs out there for family caregivers to help with costs of caring for a parent?

Not sure what to do. Dad's care is costing way more than we expected and I had to cut back my hours at work. Are there any programs that can help with the financial side of things? Any ideas please as we are starting to struggle.

Who will care for my loved one if something happens to me?

I'm the only one taking care of my husband right now, but I'm worried if I get sick or have an accident. We don't have kids and our families live far away. I feel like I need a backup plan but don't know where to start.

What documents do I need to get started on my mom's estate planning? Any advice on how to tackle this? She is not able to locate ANY documentation when I ask...

With caregiving being so demanding, how do you all manage to squeeze in some self-care time?

Recently feeling totally burnt out lately to be honest. Between work, taking care of Mom, and trying to keep up with housework, I can't remember the last time I had 2 mins for myself. I know it's important to have me time, but I feel guilty even thinking about it. Any tips?

Are there any legal protections for family caregivers like me who need to take time off work? What should I know?

My boss has been pretty understanding so far about me needing to take my Mom to appointments, but I'm worried about using up all my sick days. I heard there might be some laws to protect caregivers at work, but I don't know the details. Anyone know what my rights are?

Does anyone have a good system or care plan I can follow to stay on top of everything with my dad?

Just moved Dad in with us after his last hospital stay. He's got diabetes and early dementia. I'm totally overwhelmed trying to keep track of all his meds, appointments, and care needs. I tried making a spreadsheet but it's already a mess. Thought I would ask the community here.

What early signs of Alzheimer's should I be on the lookout for?

Mom's been pretty forgetful lately, more than usual for her age. She misplaced her keys twice this week and forgot my birthday for the first time ever. I'm probably overreacting, but Alzheimer's runs in our family and I'm freaking out a bit. What are some early warning signs I should watch for? And how do I bring this up without scaring her?