Caregiver Community Forum

I'm trying to apply for Medicaid for my family member. What documents do I need?

Trying to figure out this Medicaid stuff for my aunt. The website's confusing and there's so many forms. It's driving me nuts! Any tips from folks who've been through this before would be a lifesaver. Thanks in advance

What do you look for in a nursing home or long-term care facility to make sure it offers quality?

We're touring nursing homes for Dad next week and I'm terrified of choosing the wrong one. I've heard so many nursing home horror stories and I'm scared to death of putting Dad somewhere awful. Any advice from those who've been through this would be so appreciated.

What support do independent living communities offer to help residents stay independent?

My mom just fell and is in the hospital...how can I make sure this never happens again?

How will I know when its time to think about hospice care for my mom?

This is so hard to think about, but I know I need to face it. Let me explain, my mom's dementia has gotten really bad lately and I'm wondering if we should be considering a hospice soon. I don't want to give up on her, but I also don't want her suffering needlessly. Any thoughts?

What's the difference between hiring a private caregiver and using a home care agency? Which do you think is better?

How can I encourage my loved one to stay active? I'm worried about their physical and mental health if they don't start doing more activities

My partner used to be so active, but since retiring he's become a total couch potato. I've tried suggesting walks or joining a center, but he just brushes me off. I'm scared he's going to waste away if something doesn't change soon. Any ideas on how to motivate him?

Has anyone dealt with a denied health insurance claim for something really important (and expensive)? How did you handle it? Any programs or benefits for medical expenses?

How do you know if guardianship is the right move? Are there other options out there?

I've heard about guardianship, but it sounds so drastic. Are there any other options we should consider first for my mm? I don't want to take away her independence, but I'm really worried about her safety.

How do you juggle your own finances while also dealing with the out-of-pocket costs for your parents care?

Starting to really struggle to balance my own bills with all the extra expenses for my dad's care. Between co-pays, medications, and equipment that insurance won't cover, it feels like I'm drowning in debt. I've already dipped into my savings and I'm worried about my own financial future.