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Medicaid

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I'm curious about what basic services Medicaid for sure covers for low-income seniors. How can I make sure my aunt gets everything she is entitled to?

Folks, I'm trying to figure out this whole Medicaid thing for my aunt. She doesn't have much savings and her social security barely covers her bills. I've heard Medicaid can help with a lot of stuff, but it's all so confusing. The paperwork is driving me nuts and I'm afraid we're gonna miss something important.

Paying for Care

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Feeling lost. Can't afford Mom's care

I’m feeling really lost right now. I want to make sure my mom gets the care she deserves, but I’m struggling to figure out how to afford it all. It’s such a tough spot to be in, and I’m sure I’m not the only one dealing with this. Have any of you found creative solutions or resources that could help with finances for caregiving? I’d love to hear about different options or approaches that have worked for others. Any insight would be greatly appreciated

Alzheimer's & Dementia

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What strategies have worked for you when your loved one gets agitated and aggressive with Alzheimer's?

My father has been lashing out lately - yelling, even trying to hit me sometimes when I try to help him bathe. It breaks my heart and I don't know how to handle it. The doc says it's part of the disease but that doesn't make it any easier. I'm at my wit's end here, any advice would be welcome.

Paying for Care

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I'm considering a reverse mortgage to pay for care expenses. What are the pros and cons?

Alright, I'm gonna be real with y'all - we're running out of money to pay for Mom's care. A friend mentioned something about reverse mortgages as a way to tap into home equity, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea or not. I'm worried about losing the house, but I also don't know how else we're going to afford the care Mom needs. It all feels so overwhelming and I'm afraid of making a huge financial mistake.

Family Caregiving

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How to balance a loved one's wishes with my own judgment?

Balancing my loved one’s wishes with what I think is best can be really tough sometimes. There are moments I wonder if I’m doing the right thing by following their requests, or if I should trust my gut instead. It’s a delicate dance between supporting their desires while ensuring their safety and well-being. How have others navigated these tricky situations? How do you decide when to honor their wishes and when to step in with what you believe is best?

Mental Health

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I think my dad is getting depressed and lonely but I don't know how to help him. How can I connect with a counselor to get them some mental health support?

Hi all, I'm really worried about my dad. Since Mom passed away last year, he's just not been himself. He barely leaves the house and doesn't seem interested in anything anymore. I think he might be depressed, but I have no idea how to help him. I've tried suggesting he talk to someone, but he's from that generation that doesn't believe in therapy.

Family Caregiving

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Am I Respecting My Elderly Loved One's Dignity and Independence?

I really want to make sure that while I’m helping out, I’m not overstepping or taking away my loved one's sense of dignity and independence. It's tricky because I want to be supportive, but I sometimes worry that I might be doing too much or making decisions without really hearing them out. How do you know if you’re striking the right balance between being helpful and being respectful of their independence? If anyone has tips or experiences on how to keep that balance, I’d love to hear them! It’s so important to me that they still feel in control and respected.

Caregiver Stress

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How Do I Handle the Emotional Toll of Watching Their Health Decline?

This has been one of the hardest parts of caregiving for me—seeing someone I care about deeply go through these changes. It’s emotionally draining, and there are days when it just feels overwhelming. I often wonder if others feel the same and how you manage to cope with the emotional rollercoaster of watching a loved one's health decline. How do you find comfort or stay strong when faced with such a painful reality? I’d love to hear how others have navigated these feelings, and if there are ways to find some peace amid the heartbreak.

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