Caregiver Community Forum

I'm looking at memory care facilities. What questions should I be asking?

How do I set up a Power of Attorney, and what documents do I need to make sure it's legally binding?

Alright, so I know I need to set up a Power of Attorney for my dad, but I'm lost on how to actually do it. Any help would be awesome.

What are the common warning signs of a stroke, and how can I spot them quickly?

Folks, I'm freaking out a bit here. Mom had a close call last week - turns out it was just a dizzy spell, but it got me thinking about strokes. I know they're common in older folks, but I realized I have no clue what to look for.

Which caregiving expenses are tax-deductible? how should I keep track for tax day?

How do I have that tough talk about end-of-life wishes with my loved one?

I've been putting this off for months, but I know I need to talk to my mom about her end-of-life wishes. Just thinking about it makes my stomach churn. But I also know it's important to know what she wants. Any advice would be really appreciated.

How do I bring up the topic of nursing home with my mother who's not keen on the idea?

How do you make sure hired care aids are safe and competent for a loved one getting regular home care?

We just started having a home health aide come in to help my dad, and I'm nervous about it. I've heard horror stories about elder abuse and it's freaking me out. Do you do background checks? Set up cameras?

What signs should I watch for to know if my loved one is getting depression or anxiety?

How do you guys keep up with changes in your family member's health and adjust their care over time?

It seems like every time I turn around a new issue pops up with my wife's health. One week, it's her blood pressure, the next her arthritis acting up. I'm constantly playing catch-up. How do you all stay on top of everything and know when it's time to change things up care-wise?

What Will Happen If I Can't Continue to Provide Care?

I've been caring for a loved one for quite some time now, but lately, I've been worried about what might happen if I can’t continue to do so. It's not something I like to think about, but it’s been on my mind. I wonder how others have prepared for this possibility. What steps have you taken to ensure your loved ones are still well cared for, even if you can’t be the one providing it? I’m curious about approaches others have taken and what options might be available. Share any insights or plans that helped ease your worries!