Caregiver Community Forum

How do you make sure your family member's long-term care is covered by their health insurance?

Folks, I'm drowning in paperwork trying to figure out my spouse insurance coverage for long-term care. It feels like I need a law degree to understand all this jargon. I'm terrified we'll end up with huge bills because I missed some fine print somewhere.

What strategies have worked for you when your loved one gets agitated and aggressive with Alzheimer's?

My father has been lashing out lately - yelling, even trying to hit me sometimes when I try to help him bathe. It breaks my heart and I don't know how to handle it. The doc says it's part of the disease but that doesn't make it any easier. I'm at my wit's end here, any advice would be welcome.

What changes can I make in the bathroom to make it safer for my husband who has mobility issues?

My husband's mobility has gotten worse lately and I'm worried sick about him falling in the bathroom. We can't afford a full remodel, but I know we need to do something to make it safer for him. Any DIY tips would be great, 'cause hiring someone is probably out of our budget right now.

How do I calm things down when my family member gets aggressive or violent while I'm taking care of them?

Hey everyone, dad's got dementia and lately he's been lashing out - yelling, throwing things, even trying to hit me sometimes when I'm helping him. It's breaking my heart to see him like this. I know it's the disease talking, but it's still scary and exhausting.I've tried talking softly and giving him space, but sometimes nothing seems to help. Any tips would be so appreciated

My mom is bedridden with dementia. Should I try to get her up daily?

What early signs of Alzheimer's should I be on the lookout for?

Mom's been pretty forgetful lately, more than usual for her age. She misplaced her keys twice this week and forgot my birthday for the first time ever. I'm probably overreacting, but Alzheimer's runs in our family and I'm freaking out a bit. What are some early warning signs I should watch for? And how do I bring this up without scaring her?

Are there any legal protections for family caregivers like me who need to take time off work? What should I know?

My boss has been pretty understanding so far about me needing to take my Mom to appointments, but I'm worried about using up all my sick days. I heard there might be some laws to protect caregivers at work, but I don't know the details. Anyone know what my rights are?

With caregiving being so demanding, how do you all manage to squeeze in some self-care time?

Recently feeling totally burnt out lately to be honest. Between work, taking care of Mom, and trying to keep up with housework, I can't remember the last time I had 2 mins for myself. I know it's important to have me time, but I feel guilty even thinking about it. Any tips?

How do you know if guardianship is the right move? Are there other options out there?

I've heard about guardianship, but it sounds so drastic. Are there any other options we should consider first for my mm? I don't want to take away her independence, but I'm really worried about her safety.

How do I make sure my moms meds are covered under their Medicare Part D plan?